your, you’re
or two, too, to
or then, than
or even they’re, their, and there
Although those do tend to be pet peeves of mine, I try not to be a grammar police. Although the confusion of these words can change meanings, we usually understand what was meant despite the almost harmless mistake.
The grammar mistake I’m concerned about has much more impact in our daily lives. I’m talking about give and take. I know, I know, it’s not even a homonym. And yet, so many seem to confuse the two. I’m sure that if I asked for definitions, we’d all do just fine. Where we seem to have a problem with this, is in our application of the terms, especially with respect to our ideas of political policy.
You see, there is a common straw man heard by those on the right. When we make any statement to express why taxation for social programs is wrong, we are accused of every level of greed imaginable. We hear:
You want the poor to have no food, no medicine and no chance
You want the elderly to have no food, no medicine and no chance
You hate the poor
You want people to die
You want the rich to keep taking advantage of us
I’m sorry, but there is no logical connection there. Saying the government should not take my money to give it to someone else does NOT equal any of the above.
Let me be clear. My truck has tires that are about to blow out because they are so bald and I can’t afford to replace them. My dryer just died and I have no way to replace or repair it. I have not had a television in four years because I just don’t have the money for one. I have never had cable in my entire life. I owe money to family from them helping me through some recent hard times and I can’t pay it back. I have student loans that have not seen a payment in a year and I don’t have the money to make one. I have no money left to put into a retirement. My retirement fund is sitting at exactly zero, because despite paying into it my whole life, I’m doubtful that social security will be solvent when I can claim it. I don’t live poor. The house I lease is in a good neighborhood, but it is very old and therefore cheap. My vehicle is a 2009 model. I haven't eaten ramen noodles in at least seven months. I am not one of the “rich”. Not even on paper. I also recognize that I am far from living on minimum wage. I have a degree in I/T as well as certifications and years of experience and my job is barely covering monthly expenses and not covering any of my debt. I feel like I need to start living poor because living lower middle class is taking all of my paycheck. Is this really where a college degree and professional certifications gets you? I don’t make these comments from the perspective of being in the well to do who is just greedy.
Still, I get taxed at about a 30% rate on my federal income. I get taxed also for state income. I am also taxed through sales taxes, vehicle tags, gasoline, tobacco, toll roads, and I’m sure there’s some I’m forgetting. I don’t have any special tax havens, loopholes, deductions, rebates, exemptions, etc and I pay everything they ask of me. I am part of what holds these social systems up. The argument from the left always seems to be something like:
Someone has to help those people
It’s not fair to them
It’s not their fault
Throw in some lines about a social contract
Nope. Sorry, I don’t remember signing that. You see, I’m as generous as the next guy. Bought two homeless guys lunch just the other day, in fact. Those kinds of acts? They should be acts of giving. Instead, our government TAKES our money, because they can spend it more wisely than we can. Well, forgive me, but I don’t have that much trust in our government, especially in matters of money. If I had ⅔ of what I spent on taxes back, then I might actually have money to pay down my debt. If I had my debt paid down, I might actually have money to save for a retirement. I might have money to give to the less fortunate.
I can already see two responses that are heading in the wrong direction.
1. See, you should want government help. You deserve it.
2. You are not the one who should be doing more. It’s the rich who can afford it that we want to pay.
Both of those are wrong. Let’s take a look.
You deserve it.
No. I’m sorry, but the government does not exist for that. As much as I would LOVE some kind of break, that doesn’t mean I should expect one from anyone. Despite everything, I have never received government assistance outside of student loans. I really don’t think those should exist either, but since they do and I have to pay it back, I went for it. I have never claimed unemployment, never filed for bankruptcy, never filed for HUD or food stamps. You see, once upon a time, people were ashamed of that kind of thing.
Once upon a time, living with that kind of assistance was hard. Bread lines like this were what you could expect. You would feel the desire to rise above that. You felt a certain amount of pride for not falling that far. You would get assistance from your family, your church, where ever you could before having to do that. And those people had more of their money so that they could help you. Now, people who might be willing to help may not have the money, after taxes, to do that any more. You see, you are trying to solve a social problem with government. That has never worked out well anywhere it has been tried. Our federal government was designed to do three things. Provide for the common defense, settle disputes between the states on matters of commerce and protect our constitutional rights. It was designed to be limited to only those powers because they forsaw the problems that can (and are) occurring when the central government has the power to do more than that. Sometimes we need handouts despite our best intentions or efforts. The government, even at the state or local level should probably not be doing that. The federal government should definitely never be the one giving it. You see, it's like chopping your salad with the garbage disposal. It will probably get the job done, but I doubt it can ever do it in a clean, efficient way without unintended consequences.It's the rich who should pay
No. I'm sorry, but that is also wrong. You see, the principle doesn't change based on your income. If the government should not be taking it from me, they should not be taking it from anyone else either. Generosity and human decency are great things. When they are compulsory, they are no longer generous or decent. It's not giving if it was taken from you. They can afford it. The decent thing to do would be to give it. That doesn't give anyone the right to take it.We need to start taking responsibility for ourselves. We need to learn how to fix this problem.
If we fix this problem, there will be fewer people who need help. By empowering the lower 90%, there will also be more people able to help. We cannot ask the government to do this for us. Giving them the power to regulate commerce is what has made them the golden goose for big business and banking in the first place. We do that by demanding what we are worth as workers. We do that by learning to say no if we are being taken advantage of. We do that by having a truly free market. We do that by deciding how we spend our time and money and not having others tell us how. If the government is going to regulate those things for us, learn to continue to expect that regulation to favor those who can pay the most.

